About Flagged and Fated
We’re Charitie and Mallory — two women who know firsthand how powerful it is to find your person. But we also know that dating today? It's chaotic, unsafe, and often feels like a full-time job with no benefits.
We started Flagged & Fatal because our single friends were telling us the same thing: “Where are the real people? Where are the safe spaces?” So we created one.
This is more than dating — it’s a vetted community built around safety, consent, and real connection. Every person is background-checked. Every space is designed for intentional mingling, not mindless swiping. Whether you’re flirting, looking for friendship, or just dipping a toe in, you’ll be welcomed with clarity and care.We’re not matchmakers — we’re curators of space, champions of chemistry, and believers in safe, slow, and soulful dating.
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What People are Saying
"Finally—something for people who hate dating apps but still want to meet real people. I applied the minute I heard about it."
— Maya L., 30, Reno
"I don't know how y'all read my mind, but this is exactly what I’ve been looking for. I’m so excited to go to something that actually feels safe and fun."
— Devon A., 27, Sparks
"Even just applying made me feel hopeful about dating again. The questions were thoughtful, not superficial."
— Renee T., 33, Reno
"The fact that there's a background check AND a support person option? Y’all really thought of everything."
— Alex G., 29, TMCC Student
"I’ve told like five friends about Flagged & Fatal already. We’re all planning to go together. This is going to change the dating game in Reno."
— Julian S., 35, Carson City