Support Services
Your Personal Wingperson
At Flagged & Fated, we know modern dating can feel overwhelming — especially when safety is your priority. That’s why we offer extra support beyond our vetted events: real humans to stand by your side, guide you through uncertainty, and help you feel empowered on your path to love.
Your Personal Wingperson
Feeling anxious about meeting someone new in person?
Our wingperson service offers a trusted, discreet companion to join you on your first date or even accompany you at one of our events. Whether you want someone to help break the ice, keep conversation flowing, or simply be a reassuring presence nearby, we’re there to make sure you feel safe, seen, and supported — without getting in the way of your connection.
Perfect for:
- First dates that feel high-stakes
- Meeting someone from a dating app in real life
- Attending our events if you're nervous to come alone
Our wingpeople are trained, friendly, and understand boundaries — so your night stays yours.
online match support
Met someone online but not sure if it’s safe to meet?
We offer discreet vetting services to check if your new match shows up on any concerning lists or criminal records. Plus, we’ll walk through your concerns in a quick coaching session, helping you spot red flags and feel confident before you say yes to that date.
What’s included:
- Background check on your online match (where possible)
- A private call to discuss results and your comfort level
- Tips on how to meet safely if you move forward
We’re here to help you trust your gut — and back it up with real info.
how to request support
Interested in adding a wingperson to your night out, or want help vetting your online match?
Just click below to send us a quick request. We’ll reach out with pricing, availability, and next steps — always no pressure, and fully confidential.